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"If we have any hope of preventing
violencewhether at home or abroadówe witnesses
must expand our capacity for self-awareness, vision,
and empathy. Drawing on her experiences as a therapist,
and her work in such recovering societies as Kosovo
and South Africa, Kaethe Weingarten masterfully guides
the way, showing how 'common shock' can leave us haunted,
but can also make us better at extending a hand or a
shoulder to others."
Samantha Power,
author of A Problem from Hell: America and the Age
of Genocide
"Reading Kaethe Weingarten's Common Shock is an
extraordinary experience. In this beautifully-written
book, she takes us by the hand and walks us safely back
through the "thousand shocks" of our livespersonal
and collectiveand reveals why we have been in
so much pain from what we have seen. Remarkably, she
then teaches us how to transform our shock by becoming
'compassionate witnesses.' It is impossible not to be
touched by her vision. Kaethe Weingarten's writing has
the power to heal lives."
Michael Thompson,
co-author of Raising Cain: Protecting the Emotional
Life of Boys
"Kaethe Weingarten does an
excellent job of explaining the trauma and stress
we experience as witnesses to both major and minor
acts of violence. She integrates the psychological
and biological effects, and gives us comprehensive
advice on how to cope with the common shocks none of
us can escape. This book is must reading for everyone
working in violence prevention."
—
Alvin F. Poussaint, MD, Professor of Psychiatry, Harvard
Medical School and Judge Baker Children's Center
"Knowledge is increasing at the fastest rate in
history, but wisdom is as rare as ever. Clearly we
need both, which is why this extraordinary new book is so
welcome and important. Just as Freud taught us how
much we could learn by paying attention to the 'psychopathology
of everyday life,' so Kaethe Weingarten has expanded
our awareness of the traumas of everyday life. These
are the common shocks that we all experience, but
which we often minimize or ignore since they are not as obvious
as the atrocities or disasters to which most discussions
on trauma and stress have been restricted. This book
shows how emotional death can be caused by a thousand
small cuts, which in their cumulative impact can be
just as deadly as one big one. In writing this book,
Dr. Weingarten has made a wonderful contribution to
our capacity to understand and survive these repeated
emotional wounds far more effectively than we have been
able to up to now. She has written an original, compassionate
and deeply moving study of a phenomenon that affects
us all.."
James Gilligan,
M.D., President of the Center for the Study of Violence
and author of Violence: Reflections on a National
Epidemic and Preventing Violence
"Common Shock is an essential resource that could
not be more timely. Grounded in rigorous research on
violence and its legacies, it offers practical and effective
responses to any of us who witness violence up close
or from afar."
Margot Stern Strom,
Executive Director of Facing History and Ourselves
"This powerful, compelling, extensively researched,
important book shows that whether we remain passive
bystanders or compassionate witnesses and actors profoundly
affects not only other people and the nature of the
world around us, but also our own inner world, our own
lives and happiness. The book combines scientific knowledge,
clinical experience, and the wisdom of an acute observer
of human life. Every one of us will be greatly enriched
by reading it."
Ervin Staub, author
of The Psychology of Good and Evil
"Through introducing the concept of common shock
and its antidote witnessing, Kaethe Weingarten transforms
this world of violence into the way of compassion.
A must for every conscious citizen of the world."
—
Deena Metzger, Author of The Other Hand and Entering
the Ghost River: Meditations on the Theory and Practice
of Healing.
"This is a book for our time.
Finally, an intelligent and compassionate understanding
has been written about the deeper reality of stress,
trauma and the shocks of our global era of rapid
change.
This is a must read book for all who are interested
and concerned with traumatic stress, PTSD and the
perfusion
of common shocks into the American psyche. A thoughful
integration and synthesis which should be carefully
studied by clinicians, academics and policy
makers"
John P Wilson,
Ph.D., Professor, Cleveland State University, Fulbright
Scholar and Past President, The International Society
for Traumatic Stress Studies
"Kaethe Weingarten's Common Shock
is an extraordinary contribution to the field of trauma
studies. She not
only gives a compelling account of the impact of witnessing
violence and other stessful life events on individuals,
families and society as a whole, but also a practical
guide for taking responsibility in relation to these
experiences and transforming them into advocacy and
political action." — Jack
Saul, Director, International Trauma Studies Program,
New York University |